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In honor of Memorial Day

Understanding Its Importance and Ways Families Can Honor the Fallen

By Rosemary K Norwich-New London and Woodstock Publisher May 19, 2024

Memorial Day is a holiday in the United States. It is a day of remembrance for service members who have died while serving in the military. As families nationwide prepare for this holiday, it's important to remember what makes it unique. Many Americans confuse military holidays, so I wanted to share the distinction between Memorial Day, Veterans Day, and Armed Forces Day. I will also share some ways families can adequately celebrate this sad day.  


Understanding the Differences


Memorial Day is observed on the last Monday of May. It is the day we remember and honor individuals who have died in service to the United States, particularly those who died while in battle or from injuries they sustained in combat. Ceremonies at cemeteries and memorials usually mark the day. Military organizations, loved ones, and community members often place flowers, wreaths, and flags at the gravesites of service members.

Veterans Day is celebrated on November 11th. Veterans Day honors veterans who have previously served in the military. It's a day to thank living veterans for their service and to recognize their contributions to the nation's security and freedom.

Armed Forces Day, which falls on the third Saturday in May, is a day to honor and acknowledge the men and women currently serving in the United States military. It celebrates current active duty personnel in all military branches and their dedication to protecting the United States.

Activities for Families on Memorial Day

Memorial Day allows families to teach children about the sacrifices made by military personnel and to participate in acts of remembrance. 


Ways to Celebrate with Your Family


  1. Visit Local Cemeteries: Many families visit cemeteries to pay their respects to fallen soldiers. Bringing carnations or homemade cards to leave at gravesites is a touching way to show gratitude. This can also help children learn why observing and remembering service members who have died on Memorial Day is important. 
  2. Attend Memorial Day Parades: Many communities host Memorial Day parades that feature veterans, military personnel, and marching bands. Attending these parades can be a fun and educational experience for the whole family. Check out our list in our May events Guide.
  3. Participate in Memorial Services: Look for local memorial services or ceremonies. These often include speeches, wreath laying, and moments of silence to honor the fallen. Participating in these services can provide a deeper understanding of the day's significance, often associated with local parades.
  4. Host a Family Gathering: Memorial Day is also a time for family gatherings. Hosting a barbecue or picnic provides an opportunity to spend time together while remembering those who have sacrificed for the country. Consider including a brief moment of silence or a small tribute to fallen soldiers during your gathering.
  5. Create a Memory Craft: Engage the kids in making patriotic crafts, such as flags, wreaths, or cards that can be placed on the graves of soldiers. This hands-on activity helps them connect personally with the meaning of Memorial Day.

Memorial Day reminds us of the sacrifices made by the men and women of the armed forces. Families can pay respect to those who have laid down their lives for their country and instill in future generations the importance of remembrance and appreciation.